During the rehearsal for the wedding, I tried to explain to my daughter how important her job was as flower girl, and how she needed to be on her best behavior and do everything we asked her to do. I was basically trying my best to avoid a four year old's total meltdown. They happen. You can't predict them, you can't stop them...but if you explain things in just the right way...you may be able to prevent one from happening at just the right (wrong?) moment. So, after this little speech, she says, "It's MY special day!" We couldn't help but laugh. Even the bride thought it was cute. The flower girl, took it upon herself to make the Maid of Honor the "assistant to the Flower Girl".